Lessons about sin from a disastrous commute

I thought I knew how to get home from work. At least I certainly should have. I never imagined where I was actually going to end up. My family and I had just returned to a city we’d left five years before, and I was uncertain about my commute because we had moved to a new area. I used my GPS to get headed in the right direction until I knew where I was going; then I turned it off and headed to the new house. While the drive down the interstate felt familiar, something was off. I didn’t remember…

I told a huge lie — and I’ll never forget how God handled it

February 17, 2019 Categories: Growing PainsTags: forgiveness · grace · shame · sin

When I was 18, I told the most elaborate lie of my life and I did it because I was lazy. I worked at the meat department of a grocery store where the assistant manager, Harold Johnson (a pseudonym), was known for recruiting meat department employees to stock shelves. That wasn’t my job and I was determined to avoid it.

If you think God looks at you and sees ugliness, think again

September 8, 2018October 17, 2018 Categories: Growing PainsTags: faith · grace · love · sin

One day when I was in my 20s, I was struggling with a lot of guilt and shame because I felt like the only thing God ever saw about me was my sin and brokenness. God must’ve told my mother. I came into the dining room where my mom was and she said, “Joshua, look at that angel up there on the shelf,” and then she pointed to a ceramic angel behind me.

The Horse the Spirit Rides

May 2, 2018 Categories: Growing PainsTags: Holy Spirit · sanctification · sin

I can’t picture the Holy Spirit. I want to, but I just can’t. Now Jesus is different — I can see Him in my imagination: a Middle Eastern man with black hair, a beard, and smile wrinkles on His face (there are probably scars on His face too).

I made a great discovery when I stopped staring at a woman on the beach

January 20, 2018 Categories: Loving Your NeighborTags: criticism · judging · sin

It was the crack of dawn and I couldn’t stop looking over at the woman a few feet away from me on the beach. I had come to watch the sunrise and she was getting on my nerves.

The Nightmare God Turned Around in a Moment

May 24, 2017May 24, 2017 Categories: Trusting GodTags: dating · fear · marriage · prayer · sin · suffering · waiting

Ten years ago this month, I started the day by getting on my face before God and saying, “Lord, I’m getting down on the floor because if I get up, I’m afraid I’ll do something stupid.” I had good reason to be concerned.

The Girl Who Got Pulled Around by Her Ponytail

May 3, 2017May 3, 2017 Categories: Trusting GodTags: conflict · forgiveness · grace · healing · prayer · sin · Singleness · temptation1 Comment

One time I was at the bus stop and I saw a woman take her daughter by the ponytail, pull up, and force her to move down the sidewalk. As the girl walked forward, she tried to reach up and pull her mother’s hand away, to no avail. As the little girl cried and begged her mother to stop, a man standing nearby laughed about it, and the mother began laughing, too.

Humbled by an Awkward Text Exchange

March 8, 2017March 8, 2017 Categories: Loving Your Neighbor · UncategorizedTags: Church · judgmentalism · sin · temptation

When I was in high school, I attended the funerals for two classmates, one of whom died in a tragic shooting accident. I have a vivid memory from his funeral: sitting in the packed funeral home listening to Michael W. Smith’s song “Friends are Friends Forever” as teenagers sniffled and wiped tears away.

Video: When Did You Get Saved?

December 5, 2016December 5, 2016 Categories: Trusting God · UncategorizedTags: faith · fear · sin

A lot of people struggle with knowing the exact moment they got saved. It seems impossible to figure it out. I wrestled with that for a long time until I found the answer in Scripture. He’s a Facebook video where I talk about that …

Vulnerability in the Age of Online Oversharing

November 29, 2016December 14, 2016 Categories: Loving Your NeighborTags: healing · sin · temptation · vulnerability

At 12 years old, I can assure you it was not my plan to have a meltdown in front of a handful of my seventh-grade classmates, some of whom I didn’t know very well.

Seeing What God Did, 17 Years Later

November 15, 2016June 20, 2018 Categories: Loving Your NeighborTags: healing · kids · sexual abuse · sin · suffering

My old friend Dawn emailed me with unbelievable news last week: She accidentally found Amanda. The last time either of us saw her was 17 years ago.

Jesus Hated Shame, You Can Too

September 29, 2016September 29, 2016 Categories: Trusting GodTags: criticism · fear · grace · healing · sin · suffering

The other night, I was putting my little daughters to bed, and I sensed that I needed to talk to them about shame. I figured we could discuss it the next day since it was already late, but I didn’t realize the Holy Spirit was prompting me for a reason. Before I left the room, one of my daughters said, “Daddy, a girl at school called me a mean name.” “What was it?” I asked. She covered her face with her hands and said, “I don’t want to say.”

How to Gradually Ruin a Good Relationship

September 5, 2016September 7, 2016 Categories: Loving Your NeighborTags: conflict · friendship · judgmentalism · sin

A few years ago, I was in a dysfunctional situation with a couple of other people — one was my boss, the other was my coworker. And like most dysfunctional relationships, it didn’t happen overnight. Things just built up over time.

Needy Family Members Reveal our Neediness for Jesus

July 5, 2016March 14, 2018 Categories: ParenthoodTags: grace · kids · parenthood · sin

Last night, my daughters were in the living room where my newborn son was sleeping in a bouncy seat on the floor. I went to the bathroom after explicitly saying, “Please be quiet around your brother.” I should have just taken the baby to the bathroom with me.

What a Third Baby is Teaching Me About the Father Love of God

June 29, 2016June 29, 2016 Categories: ParenthoodTags: grace · kids · parenthood · sin

Right now, I’m looking across the room at my son, a newborn baby boy curled against my wife’s chest. She’s nursing him, which takes a lot more effort than you would imagine. And speaking of effort, there are a host of other little tasks that somehow manage to take up nearly the whole day. We don’t mind it, but we’ve come a long way since our first two children were infants.

Joshua Rogers

Finding God in the Ordinary

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